HbirdThis blog is a love letter to the visionaries—the founders, creatives, coaches, and dreamers—who feel both inspired and overwhelmed by their own brilliance. If you’ve ever felt like your ideas are moving faster than your ability to execute, this post is for you.
HbirdOnly 7% of women negotiated their first salary, compared to 57% of men. That’s a 50% gap in self-advocacy at the starting line. And what’s more? Women are more likely to accept the first offer, downplay their wins, and avoid asking for raises because we fear being seen as “difficult.” Or—brace yourself—“not a team player.” You know how to negotiate, you are just doing it in the wrong places.
Amie RafterGenerative AI is designed to make our lives easier. It drafts emails, brainstorms ideas, writes presentations, and even suggests responses in conversations. It’s the ultimate cognitive assistant. But here’s the paradox: the more we delegate thinking to AI, the less we engage in the cognitive effort that keeps our minds sharp.
Amie RafterWe live in an era obsessed with expertise. LinkedIn bios, conference panels, and job applications all demand proof—degrees, certifications, years spent sharpening a singular skill. Expertise, we’re told, is the currency of credibility. And yet, for all its value, I’ve come to accept that I will never be an “expert” in the traditional sense. And, honestly? I don’t want to be.